参考一下下面这段代码就可以了。
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Imports System.Data
'引入数据库操作类命名空间
Imports System.Data.OleDb
'引入ADO.NET操作命名空间
Public Class FrmModifystInfo
Inherits System.Windows.Forms.Form
Public ADOcmd As OleDbDataAdapter
Public ds As DataSet = New DataSet()
'建立DataSet对象
Public mytable As Data.DataTable
'建立表单对象
Public myrow As Data.DataRow
'建立数据行对象
Public rownumber As Integer
'定义一个整型变量来存放当前行数
Public SearchSQL As String
Public cmd As OleDbCommandBuilder
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#Region " Windows 窗体设计器生成的代码 "
#End Region
'======================================================
Private Sub FrmModifystInfo_Load(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles MyBase.Load
'窗体的载入
TxtSID.Enabled = False
TxtName.Enabled = False
ComboSex.Enabled = False
TxtBornDate.Enabled = False
TxtClassno.Enabled = False
TxtRuDate.Enabled = False
TxtTel.Enabled = False
TxtAddress.Enabled = False
TxtComment.Enabled = False '设置信息为只读
Dim tablename As String = "student_Info "
SearchSQL = "select * from student_Info "
ExecuteSQL(SearchSQL, tablename) '打开数据库
ShowData() '显示记录
End Sub
Private Sub ShowData()
'在窗口中的textbox中显示数据
myrow = mytable.Rows.Item(rownumber)
TxtSID.Text = myrow.Item(0).ToString
TxtName.Text = myrow.Item(1).ToString
ComboSex.Text = myrow.Item(2).ToString
TxtBornDate.Text = Format(myrow.Item(3), "yyyy-MM-dd ")
TxtClassno.Text = myrow.Item(4).ToString
TxtTel.Text = myrow.Item(5).ToString
TxtRuDate.Text = Format(CDate(myrow.Item(6)), "yyyy-MM-dd ")
TxtAddress.Text = myrow.Item(7).ToString
TxtComment.Text = myrow.Item(8).ToString
End Sub
Private Sub BtFirst_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtFirst.Click
'指向第一条数据
rownumber = 0
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtPrev_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtPrev.Click
'指向上一条数据
BtNext.Enabled = True
rownumber = rownumber - 1
If rownumber 0 Then
rownumber = 0 '如果到达记录的首部，行号设为零
BtPrev.Enabled = False
End If
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtNext_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtNext.Click
'指向上一条数据
BtPrev.Enabled = True
rownumber = rownumber + 1
If rownumber mytable.Rows.Count - 1 Then
rownumber = mytable.Rows.Count - 1 '判断是否到达最后一条数据
BtNext.Enabled = False
End If
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtLast_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtLast.Click
'指向最后一条数据
rownumber = mytable.Rows.Count - 1
ShowData()
End Sub
Private Sub BtDelete_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtDelete.Click
mytable.Rows.Item(rownumber).Delete() '删除记录
If MsgBox( "确定要删除改记录吗？ ", MsgBoxStyle.OKCancel + vbExclamation, "警告 ") = MsgBoxResult.OK Then
cmd = New OleDbCommandBuilder(ADOcmd)
'使用自动生成的SQL语句
ADOcmd.Update(ds, "student_Info ")
BtNext.PerformClick()
End If
End Sub
Private Sub BtModify_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtModify.Click
TxtSID.Enabled = False '关键字段只读
TxtName.Enabled = True '可读写
ComboSex.Enabled = True
TxtBornDate.Enabled = True
TxtClassno.Enabled = True
TxtRuDate.Enabled = True
TxtTel.Enabled = True
TxtAddress.Enabled = True
TxtComment.Enabled = True
End Sub
Private Sub BtUpdate_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtUpdate.Click
If Not Testtxt(TxtName.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请输入姓名！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtName.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(ComboSex.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请选择性别！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
ComboSex.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(TxtClassno.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请选择班号！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtClassno.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(TxtTel.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请输入联系电话！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtTel.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not Testtxt(TxtAddress.Text) Then
MsgBox( "请输入家庭住址！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtAddress.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
If Not IsNumeric(Trim(TxtSID.Text)) Then
MsgBox( "请输入数字学号！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
Exit Sub
TxtSID.Focus()
End If
If Not IsDate(TxtBornDate.Text) Then
MsgBox( "出生时间应输入日期格式（yyyy-mm-dd）！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
Exit Sub
TxtBornDate.Focus()
End If
If Not IsDate(TxtRuDate.Text) Then
MsgBox( "入校时间应输入日期格式（yyyy-mm-dd）！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtRuDate.Focus()
Exit Sub
End If
myrow.Item(0) = Trim(TxtSID.Text)
myrow.Item(1) = Trim(TxtName.Text)
myrow.Item(2) = Trim(ComboSex.Text)
myrow.Item(3) = Trim(TxtBornDate.Text)
myrow.Item(4) = Trim(TxtClassno.Text)
myrow.Item(5) = Trim(TxtTel.Text)
myrow.Item(6) = Trim(TxtRuDate.Text)
myrow.Item(7) = Trim(TxtAddress.Text)
myrow.Item(8) = Trim(TxtComment.Text)
mytable.GetChanges()
cmd = New OleDbCommandBuilder(ADOcmd)
'使用自动生成的SQL语句
ADOcmd.Update(ds, "student_Info ")
'对数据库进行更新
MsgBox( "修改学籍信息成功！ ", vbOKOnly + vbExclamation, "警告 ")
TxtName.Enabled = False
ComboSex.Enabled = False
TxtBornDate.Enabled = False
TxtClassno.Enabled = False
TxtRuDate.Enabled = False
TxtTel.Enabled = False
TxtAddress.Enabled = False
TxtComment.Enabled = False '重新设置信息为只读
End Sub
Private Sub BtCancel_Click(ByVal sender As System.Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles BtCancel.Click
TxtSID.Enabled = False
TxtName.Enabled = False
ComboSex.Enabled = False
TxtBornDate.Enabled = False
TxtClassno.Enabled = False
TxtRuDate.Enabled = False
TxtTel.Enabled = False
TxtAddress.Enabled = False
TxtComment.Enabled = False
End Sub
Public Function ExecuteSQL(ByVal SQL As String, ByVal table As String)
Try
'建立ADODataSetCommand对象
'数据库查询函数
ADOcmd = New OleDbDataAdapter(SQL, "Provider=Microsoft.Jet.OLEDB.4.0;Data Source=c:\student.mdb ")
'建立ADODataSetCommand对象
ADOcmd.Fill(ds, table) '取得表单
mytable = ds.Tables.Item(0) '取得名为table的表
rownumber = 0 '设置为第一行
myrow = mytable.Rows.Item(rownumber)
'取得第一行数据
Catch
MsgBox(Err.Description)
End Try
End Function
End Class
请采纳。
如果楼主熟悉VB6，可以直接在项目中添加ADODB的Com引用，这样你就可以像VB6那样操作数据库了！
另外
.NET Framework中连接数据库要用到ADO.NET。如果要操作Access数据库，要用到System.Data.OleDb命名空间下的许多类。
比如按楼主所说，“我想在textbox1中显示表一中【一些数据】字段下的第一个内容”：
'首先导入命名空间
Imports System.Data
Imports System.Data.OleDb
'然后在某一个事件处理程序中写：
Dim conn As New OleDbConnection("Provider=Microsoft.ACE.OLEDB.12.0;Data Source=数据库.accdb;Jet OLEDB:Database Password=MyDbPassword")
Dim command As New OleDbCommand("Select * From 数据表", conn)
conn.Open() '打开数据库连接
Dim reader As OleDbDataReader = command.ExecuteReader() '执行SQL语句，返回OleDbDataReader 对象
Do While reader.Read() '读取一条数据
textbox1.Text += reader("一些数据") VbCrLf
Loop
reader.Close() '关闭OleDbDataReader
conn.Close() '关闭连接
以下示例代码来自msdn
Option Explicit On
Option Strict On
Imports System
Imports System.Data
Imports System.Data.SqlClient
Public Class Program
Public Shared Sub Main()
Dim connectionString As String = _
"Data Source=(local);Initial Catalog=Northwind;" _
"Integrated Security=true"
' Provide the query string with a parameter placeholder.
Dim queryString As String = _
"SELECT ProductID, UnitPrice, ProductName from dbo.Products " _
"WHERE UnitPrice @pricePoint " _
"ORDER BY UnitPrice DESC;"
' Specify the parameter value.
Dim paramValue As Integer = 5
' Create and open the connection in a using block. This
' ensures that all resources will be closed and disposed
' when the code exits.
Using connection As New SqlConnection(connectionString)
' Create the Command and Parameter objects.
Dim command As New SqlCommand(queryString, connection)
command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@pricePoint", paramValue)
' Open the connection in a try/catch block.
' Create and execute the DataReader, writing the result
' set to the console window.
Try
connection.Open()
Dim dataReader As SqlDataReader = _
command.ExecuteReader()
Do While dataReader.Read()
Console.WriteLine( _
vbTab "{0}" vbTab "{1}" vbTab "{2}", _
dataReader(0), dataReader(1), dataReader(2))
Loop
dataReader.Close()
Catch ex As Exception
Console.WriteLine(ex.Message)
End Try
Console.ReadLine()
End Using
End Sub
End Class
----------------------回答补充------------------------------------
上面的源码你应该仔细看看，因为这是微软的示例代码，是通用的，写得很规范。
至于你的特殊的问题，在vb2010中可以不用一句代码把你的表显示在窗体上。
1、首先打开Visual Studio 2008代码窗口，添加引用。
2、输入以下代码：Public conn1 As SqlConnection = New SqlConnection 。
3、声明关键字 Public；（因为是全局变量，所以用Public 来声明）。
4、如果SQL 数据库就在本机，则用以下代码连接。
5、如果代码太长，影响可读性，可以用空格加"_"后，回车换行即可。
connStr.ConnectionString = "Data Source=localhost;Initial Catalog=test1;user id=sa;password=123456"
一般是你这里的设置写的不对导致找不到数据服务器 导致一直处于连接中的状态，需要等待超时 才会有反应
